Tips for a perfect lover: give a blowjob!
A lot has been told about blowjobs, and more will be said regarding this issue in the future. In order not to repeat and not to talk about what everyone already knows for a long time, we will try to understand a very subtle and little studied aspect as the conscious rejection of oral sex by a man and blowjob in particular.
1. Lovemaking starts with gentle touches of the tongue to the glans penis. The main purpose is only awakening of its sensuality, emergence of the first, sharp sense of pleasure and the beginning of excitement. It is necessary to carefully monitor its reaction and in every possible way to demonstrate to the man your own delight and excitement, following the swelling of the penis from the gentle touches of the tongue.
Do not insist on continuing caresses. Soon he will get used to the fact that the first signals to arousal are your lips and tongue.
2. Gradually increase the time of caresses, as if «forgetting» to transfer the initiative to him and getting mad pleasure from the process of caressing his penis. At this stage, the gentle slide of the tongue on the glans penis begins to alternate with the capture of the lips, more demanding and bright circular movements of the tongue at the base of the foreskin, but while these caresses are short-lived.
3. The man realizes that you get real pleasure and are excited yourself, caressing his cock with his tongue. Now he already differently looks at oral sex.
Nature can not be deceived for a long time, and the inexorable movements of the tongue, skillfully alternating with the capture of the glans penis in the ring of the lips, change of sensations and temperature (because if before you wrap your lips around the penis a little blow on it, the reaction force increases significantly), do their job. Not allowing him to get used to the monotony of caresses, you will teach him to enjoy blowjob! But at this stage you still return every time to the classic completion of the act of love, but the oral prelude becomes longer and more diverse!
4. Time for a tipping point. You should keep petting as a spiral, inevitably leading your beloved to the final point. Apply a gentle sucking motion, tickling tongue and sliding your lips.
This method is taken from the diaries of a woman whose husband was subject to the most, oddly enough, common type of male refusal to blowjob – the statement that he does not recognize, does not love and does not understand this pleasure.
After these exercises, oral sex, blowjob, and cunnilingus – all the components of erotic games tightly entered into their lives, and her beloved will never be able to say that all this is complete nonsense, and he is made of some other materials and does not like blowjob.
The described example from life will very much help all those women who want not only to receive delight, but also to accustom the darling to feel pleasure. If your stubborn man says that blowjob is not his favorite topic, make him admit his mistake! Let this process will take you a lot of time – because the psychological locks do not immediately open, but the result is worth it, what would work on it properly!